Tuesday, August 11, 2009

love against public display of affection


LOVE

The one word that has indescribably beautiful meaning but is so overused and abused in crap songs, greeting cards, etc that now it's just annoyingly cheesy.
But none the less.... I worship love. I do.
Everybody needs love. Everybody is capable of loving. Loving and being loved is our basic desire. But how afraid our society is of expressing love.

Love does branches out to lust and lust branches down to sex. And why is sex so bad? I think sex is the most beautiful thing in life, and everybody should experience sex in their lifetime, at least once.
It is our nature to have sex And if sex is so limited only to those who are married, and just as an act of conceiving babies, then you are pressuring people into marriage for the wrong reasons. So I'm saying. Sex is a beautiful thing. Experience it! Without pressure!
Underline the word 'Without pressure' because anyone who is having sex under pressure, be it physical, mental or peer pressure... that is not sex, that is manipulation and rape.

Some might say that Public Display of Affection is inconsiderate because it makes other people uncomfortable. My question is, why should it? Why are we uncomfortable watching two people loving each other? When deep down every person knows that love is a beautiful thing, but for some reason, we are locking away that desire to show affection because it is considered impolite.
Ironically, while some say that Public Display of Affection is undignified, the same people seem to tolerate violence.
Dont we stand around in circles to watch people get into fights? And slow down our motorcycles to get a glimpse of auto accidents?
In our local television, we let our children watch people getting shot at and police officers drag criminals by their collar in day time crime shows... But anything as much as a kissing scene would immediately be censored unyieldingly.
So what is this saying? That frontal acts of violence is tolerated but frontal acts of love is forbidden? Our society is not only sexually repressed, we are repressing affection, lust, natural desires... we are repressing Love.
While letting hate grow..

Forbidding anything, in any case, has never been and never will be a solution to a problem. It will just ooze out through little holes and then exist in a different form, usually reforming into a distorted shape from its original form. Thus causing misconception.
And sex, a basic human desire, when repressed in society, will find ways to exist behind closed dignified doors. And behind doors is where perversions happen.

If we embrace affection, it wouldnt have to hide and come out only in the dark when no one's looking.
If we em brace love, well the possibility is endless....


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